H.O.O.P.
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Helping Out Our People
Rules For Support Groups
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Please remember to protest and keep confidential the names, identities and personal stories of fellow members.
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We share feelings and experiences just as they are. There are no right or wrong statements.
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Members may choose to share or at times remain silent. Everyone’s presence is appreciated and can be a source of healing for others. Listening is a gift too.
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Please respect that you may be in a different place in your grief journey than other members of the group. Individuals respond to loss and change in different ways and different times.
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Cross talk is discouraged. This means while a person is sharing avoid offering comments or feedback while they are speaking. There will be a sharing stone. The person holding the stone will be the speaker.
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Giving or asking for advice is not allowed during discussion.
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Confrontation is discouraged. We are a support group.
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Each person knows what is best for them, if at any time persons need to leave or take a break; they are free to do so.
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Tears are a normal emotion of grief. There will also be times of laughter.
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Sharing that takes place is special to everyone in the room. Please don’t ask questions seeking more information. What each person chooses to share is appreciated and sufficient.